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How She Would Want It

KATHY059My mother died on this day – December 10, 2006. It has been 8 years now, but it’s still a sad day.  I find myself close to tears several times throughout the day as I remember, and I do my best to replace the sadness with happy memories of her, and there are many, many happy memories to choose from.

For the last two weeks of her life, she was at home, receiving hospice support.  I was there caring for her, along with various other family members who came and went and some professional care givers, as well. But I was the one who was there 24 hours a day.

I had the chance to talk with my mother a lot during those final weeks, especially the first week, while she was still fully lucid and alert. We shared our honest and heartfelt thoughts during the wee hours of the morning when no one else was there or awake and I had the chance to say everything I wanted and needed to say to her,  She did, too. Continue reading How She Would Want It